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Why do women feel the need to tell a guy they like him

B_1
Thu, 26 Jan 2017 19:37:08 GMT

I feel most women feel the need to tell a guy she like him because of the pressure of soceity, familes, friends and their own issues

B_1
Thu, 26 Jan 2017 20:33:58 GMT

Exactly we need to truly seek God for ourselves concering our future relationship and marriage.

euwministry
Thu, 26 Jan 2017 20:37:37 GMT

That is very trueeeeeee and sadly social media plays a big part in bringing women down to compare and feel worthless because they arent married

euwministry
Thu, 26 Jan 2017 20:38:27 GMT

even if me waiting doesnt sit well with others and they are pressuring I will remind myself that Gods best NEVER HAS TO BE UNDERSTOOD BY PEOPLE

f123
Thu, 26 Jan 2017 20:42:35 GMT

That has happened to me as well. Like people are satisfied if you are happy that you are single. I would rather be single and have a relationship with God than be in a relationship without God.

ayesha_93
Thu, 26 Jan 2017 20:44:39 GMT

It's true there is nothing wrong with being in "Single Season", this is the time to build a deeper relationship with God. God shaping and modeling you to his image. A chance to love who you are in Christ. You are not able to do this if you are in a relationship that you are not supposed to be in. You will use that relationshio to fill a void that God should be filling. Did God even confirm that you will get married ????? No discouraging people, I would love to get married myself but God has not confirmed that for my life yet.

euwministry
Thu, 26 Jan 2017 20:44:56 GMT

Thats actually crazy. amen and amen which many fail to see and I pray their eyes will be open to see the truth and be set free

euwministry
Thu, 26 Jan 2017 20:46:07 GMT

Ayesha that message thoughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh that was in my thoughts too, all say they want marriage but it is God who determines whether we get married or not.

euwministry
Thu, 26 Jan 2017 20:46:51 GMT

I love that and it is true tbh, cant be with God and be unequally yoked, have to have God first in everything not some things but all things especially when it comes to marriage

euwministry
Thu, 26 Jan 2017 20:48:26 GMT

My question is how would a woman who is soo eager to get married handle God telling her she is not going to get married?

f123
Thu, 26 Jan 2017 20:48:35 GMT

Being unequally yoked is an open door to many problems.

euwministry
Thu, 26 Jan 2017 20:49:12 GMT

Lord knows that is the true, learnt that the hard way. especially the fact that we cant change a man to be who we want them to be

ayesha_93
Thu, 26 Jan 2017 20:52:04 GMT

Oooo GOOD QUESTION, I honestly believe God will prepare you for that. He would start with working on your heart for example if you are eager to get married, God will question why do you want to get married so quickly. He will convict you and make you realise that you have made marriage an idol.

euwministry
Thu, 26 Jan 2017 20:54:08 GMT

I loveeeeeeeee that, I agree it is a deep one but as you said God will prepare their hearts, that is why it is so important to hold onto God and seek direction from Him or else this happens and you are left with self inflicted pain asking why when all along you did not ask for His direction.

f123
Thu, 26 Jan 2017 21:03:02 GMT

People do not realise that marriage can be an idol as well as worshipping people can be an idol.

euwministry
Thu, 26 Jan 2017 21:05:54 GMT

THISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS exactly so, an idol they strongly believe is from God and once you put things before God it doesnt end well and we learn the hard way. All that can be avoided if only we werent stubborn and assumed rather than ask God.

f123
Thu, 26 Jan 2017 21:21:57 GMT

Amen I agree.

Motivated Dreams
Thu, 26 Jan 2017 21:28:39 GMT

Women feel the need to tell a guy that they like him for various reasons: She sense he might feel the same way, you know he’ll take her seriously, she thinks about him more often, she is comfortable around him, she trust him, he is in her everyday life, they have good chemistry, she sees a future with him, he is single, shares common interests, has morals and values, compatible and knows him better than most

f123
Thu, 26 Jan 2017 21:30:30 GMT

Very true indeed. Some women like to express their feelings by saying it to other men.

Motivated Dreams
Thu, 26 Jan 2017 21:39:54 GMT

Think about it. Women are not getting any younger than they are right now. Effective communication is the foundation of all relationships. Most guys respond positively to a woman’s interest in him. What is the worse that could happen? You don't want miss out and lose on the man you like to another woman for the fear of not expressing your true feelings for him

katashdiakonia
Fri, 27 Jan 2017 20:35:40 GMT

She wants closure cause the boy might be too slow to see the signs that she likes him.

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