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Gaslighting much?

possboss
Tue, 09 Oct 2018 07:42:44 GMT

possboss
Tue, 09 Oct 2018 07:58:09 GMT

I love this show, but: The assessments of Ryan Duke’s Facebook status is uniquely frustrating: it’s just another white guy who has a problem with talking to women. He feels misunderstood, he wants intimacy but has no idea clearly how to pursue relationships in a healthy way. Let’s not get the violins out and feel sad, or pretend that there is some extenuating emotional situation. The guy has a picture of a girl with a baseball bat on his profile. He clearly has a problem with women and saw them as threatening. Tara was clearly on the wrong end of an expression of that inadequacy. Don’t fucking excuse these men who kill women because they are scared of them. Are Americans so prudish that no-one can say “rape”? Wtf are those charges?! Burglary?! Payne has done a great job but there is a lack of insight about the way women function in this whole story which is disappointing. 🙄 I’m a bit behind real-time but it’s just annoying me. Duke’s language is classic abuser hy perbole that objectifies the woman who will save him and when she doesn’t he lashes out. Happens literally everyday and women are killed by their intimate partners. He’s not a romantic, he’s disfunctional.

maisymouse
Tue, 09 Oct 2018 10:07:09 GMT

Just a note for some context... that picture of a girl with the bat is an iconic picture by Banksy.. street art..

Osmosis
Tue, 09 Oct 2018 12:29:20 GMT

In other banksy news this was awesome https://www.designboom.com/art/banksy-reveals-how-he-built-his-self-destructing-artwork-10-09-2018/

possboss
Tue, 09 Oct 2018 23:26:46 GMT

Ah yeah ok. I know the one you mean. It still sits so badly that he seems to have had a victim mentality about his interactions with women tho... 😬

juliet-1
Tue, 09 Oct 2018 23:50:02 GMT

K coming at ya soon

beckymader
Mon, 15 Oct 2018 23:48:37 GMT

Has anyone noticed that some of the posts are just song lyrics? "Tick tock of the clock is painful, all sane and logical" is from Eve 6 "Inside Out"

↓Na⁺
Mon, 15 Oct 2018 23:54:48 GMT

I thought I noticed that too but then I swallowed my doubt, turned it inside out and found nothing but faith in nothing.

↓Na⁺
Tue, 16 Oct 2018 00:06:24 GMT

Just kidding becky. I'm pretty sure it was addressed in a later episode.

maisymouse
Tue, 16 Oct 2018 06:01:04 GMT

Watch it spin round to a beautiful oblivion. Rendezvous, then I'm through, Now I'm through with you. 🔈🎵la la la