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Good Q, there was an older white haired man sitting beside Dixie and behind Bo at trial, must have been Dixie’s BF ??? , I never saw the guy interact with Bo at breaks.... he really never moved, said anything , showed no emotion, I would have said he was dead but I walked out behind him and Dixie at lunch , heard him say something about getting an item from his truck ....
Fatherless Bo makes sense looking at his problematic behaviors and unstable emotional/social functioning. Sadly, growing up with out a fatherly figure has many negative effects...
@mess I generally don’t like to play psychiatrist but since you already have I’ll dabble too as the water is already warm. Having a one parent home is not ideal as the child may have lasting questions as to how relationships should or shouldn’t operate. Not all children who experience sole parental custody or those who have been placed with one parent over another are not inherently in more danger of developing any particular psychosis over another. However it’s far more common to find intimacy and trust issues in these children as they age out of adolescence. I’m not sure how Bo’s parents relationship was or what kind of split they had. I also am not fully aware of how or why Ryan’s parents split. I do remember hearing,on the podcast, a friend of Ryan’s say Ryan went to live with his father (possibly middle school) and the younger brothers stayed home with his mother. I’m not aware of the intricacies of that dynamic but any child who had to chose or was told to go live with their father could have lasting effects on how they viewed women in general if that decision wasn ’t 100% what they wanted. Again this is complete conjecture just like your post was but I thought I’d add a similar but slightly slanted view for others to wrestle with. Double edge sword kinda thing
and yet the vast majority of people raised in single parent households never burn a body or rape women at gunpoint...
Nail on the head, very good @2pcs! Both men would be the aberration not the norm
i’m a psychologist
Let's all step back. Are you all really going to blame this on parents?
sure looks like it
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No. But but one must consider why Bo is the way he is. Impacts on his childhood development have molded him into the sadistic narcissist that he is. I like miss_bee’s psychological profiling assessment best lol. She’s nailed it a few times.
Interesting article published today by USA TODAY. It states “_...the boy crisis resides where dads do not reside._ *_The American Psychological Association found that father absence predicts the profile of both the bully and the bullied’s poor social skills, and the bully’s poor grades and self-esteem. According to a study in the Journal of Marriage and Family, every 1% increase in fatherlessness in a neighborhood predicts a 3% increase in adolescent violence._*”
Thought I’d share since there was some debate about parenting styles and lack of parental involvement impacting a child/person’s development. I found the article vuuury interesting and informative. . . “*_It starts early. Before six months of age, the less interaction a boy has with his dad, the lower his mental competence. And dad-deprivation is a significant predictor of the increasing rate of male suicide, drug overdose, obesity and withdrawal into video game addiction._*” https://www.usatoday.com/story/opinion/2019/04/07/males-risk-boy-crisis-identity-america-future-addiction-suicide-column/3331366002/